We live in a world full of battles to win on. Kids these days, as we might not know it, go through a lot of challenges, and even so, have further more challenges to face and are facing than we adults have ever had. Usually, teenagers are influenced by their peers in many various ways, and all of these may oftentimes results to a downfall on their self esteems, plus they are also very exposed daily to social media, which can affect their confidence more. Your daughter will just hear a few harsh comments about her and then boom, her confidence deflates.
Be Confident And let Her See How It Looks Like
You will always be the basis as to how you as a parent will act around your children when it comes to their emotional development. A child will always look unto their parent as to how they should act during their younger years. Normally, you are the one responsible for influencing your daughter, which is why it is important that you are showing to her what it truly means to be confident. You will always have to remind her to never be afraid of speaking up and stating her opinions, irregardless of the issue she is talking about.
It might be allowed and understandable to take some pills to change up your weight or take pride of how you look, but too much of that might not give good hints to your daughter about accepting her body.
Young ladies are the easiest to influence. While they are being severely influenced by social media, it is imperative for parents to teach their young girls that looks are not everything they should take good care of. You must always constantly make her feel valued and cared for and always acknowledge her strengths. Celebrities can be followed by your little girls, but only if they teach young fans to act in a good and respectable way.
Give Her Smart Choices
A lot of teenagers are blinded by the idea that popularity is something they should achieve in their lives. They see a lot of rich and famous stars getting all the money while just being plain pretty and doing nothing else. You may have young girls wanting to become professional singers or actresses, that is good that they have the talents, but you have to constantly remind them that the most important thing is to be educated. Constantly tell her that a good education is better than a fifteen-minute fame on a talent show. You must prevent yourself from saying harsh words on your own girl. You should teach her and lecture her on how her capabilities will help her with life and that she has a choice to follow through what her heart wants.